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asperger’s syndrome ~ the inside story
An afternoon of fascinating and invaluable information from people with Asperger’s syndrome, held on Saturday, 30th January 2010, at The Theatre, Headington School, Oxford.  Our main speaker was Marc Fleisher, MPhil, BSc, speaker at National and International Conferences with many tv credits and author of ‘Making Sense of the Unfeasible’ and ‘Survival Strategies for People on the Autism Spectrum’. Autism Oxford also introduced local young people with Asperger’s syndrome with a message to impart, speaking for the first time in public (in order of appearance: Stephen Erangey (as compere and also as speaker), Paul Isaacs, Lindsay Smith, Patrick Mills, Catherine Black, James Rawlings (as compere), and Matthew Bratt (appearing on video).  

marc fleisher

What the audience said about Marc:

“Thank you Marc - a well written fantastically executed lecture. You have really helped me to formulate some ideas that I have, which i will take with me to work. I’ll keep challenging and giving the support/empathy that the people i support deserve and require”
“Marc had helpful comments re support from autism bases for children in mainstream”
“Excellent talk - important messages and the need for belief in self”
“Very interesting speaker, made things easy to understand with his comparisons.”
“Interesting examples and analogies; lots of energy. Good advice”

   
 
Marc Fleisher
“Sections very clear, helped with understanding”
“Wonderful insight, Excellent”
“An excellent and inspiring speaker - Brilliant”
“Fantastic. Good ideas we need to look at with our son”
“Very interesting journey, spoken with clarity and passion”
“Insightful presentation into the small but significant difficulties a very intelligent AS person can suffer from”
“Such an inspiration and encouragement to others”
“Easy to listen to, nice examples so points clearly demonstrated”
“Excellent, well organised, clear and interesting”
“Very informative, will really use the advice as my son gets older”
“Excellent insights into problems encountered by adults with AS”
 
     

stephen erangey

What the audience said about Stephen:

“Good style - humorous”
“Brave to start it off! Really worked”
“Funny, clear, wonderful to listen to”
“Interesting, funny, welcoming - Excellent”
“Very well done”
“Poignant!”
“3 rules for Best Practice to take back to work with me”
“Very courageous and thought provoking!”
“Clear, humorous, entertaining”
“Wonderful, open, and honest”
“Thank you for your rules”
“Lovely flow, sincere and funny”
“Good, clear interaction with the audience”
“3 points that will stick with me – thanks”

 
Stephen Erangey
“Very welcoming introduction, clear loud voice, and enthusiastic introductions of each speaker”
“Good sense of humour – very entertaining!”
“Excellent-very clear and humorous”
“Clear, amusing, really funny at times!”
“Very enlightening, heartfelt delivery”
“Brilliant presentation and very good use of visuals”
“Very confident, clear speaker”
“Wonderful humour and life experiences”
“Helpful pointers for me as a parent – clear examples, thank you”
“Very moving – help us to be social”
 
 

paul isaacs

What the audience said about Paul:

“Exceptional-Very interesting and comprehensive, well presented”
“Very helpful explanation of how it feels to have AS and how to find help”
“So helpful in giving us an understanding of AS”
“Very clear points”
“Excellent - Wonderful open and honest - very good”
“A good speaker, clear and honest”
“Completely agree with all points!”
“Extremely helpful and interesting account of life - really good to hear personal experiences and advice”

 
Paul Isaacs

“Very insightful, helped understand challenges from his perspective”
“Very pleased with the info on playground space, thank you for sharing”
“Wonderful speaker - good sense of humour and loved his honesty!”
“A delightful young man with some great insights into his condition”
“Excellent, very clear, and no notes! How did you remember everything?!”
“Excellent speaker, really kept audience’s attention”
“Gave a very clear history of his school life and problems encountered but without  bitterness”
“Very calm and mature speaker, explained things in a very clear way”
“Brilliant insight”
“Brilliantly put-some useful information”
“Very articulate-should go far”
“Mind-blowing for me as a parent. Liked the humour!”
“Honest and easy to understand”
“A delight-with amazing humour. If my son grows into a Paul I’ll be delighted!”
“Very humorous-I liked Paul’s comments about his experience in the work place”
 “Very impressed”

 

lindsay smith

What the audience said about Lindsay:

“Enlightening and confident talk. Brave, and with clear conviction”
“I appreciated Lindsay’s comments about how difficult she found it to fit in, in later stages of secondary school”
“A real show of courage - lovely end message”
“Well done, so full of life and deep understanding”
“Good to hear such a positive speech! Very clear and well spoken”
“Full of character!! Good clear message to audience”
“Excellent – very fluent”
“Loved the dress sense, very interesting, loved the quote at the end”
“Very moving and enlightening listening to her experience of bullying”
“Very positive approach”
“Very dramatic and engaging”
“Very brave, loved the negative into positive”
“Loved her outlook and energy”
“Engaging, articulate, passionate story, excellent”
“Thank you for your advice to all people - on and off the spectrum”
“Great speech full of life, great to hear the positives”
“A great, more psychologically based presentation - some amazing advice about life which people on and off the spectrum can learn from!”
“A speech full of character and optimism - very positive and inspiring”
“Fascinating, brave and honest. Excellent final message”
“Lovely presentation, so good to hear the positives especially about bullying”
“Well done, I’m so glad you spoke”
“Wonderful - very impressed”

 
     

patrick mills

What the audience said about Patrick:

“Really great to hear about alternative channels to aggression”
“A great start for Patrick giving us his ideas about the power of martial arts”
“Very good final message and really useful answers to questions”
“Really interesting to know how martial arts can address anger issues”
“Excellent - how open!”
“Good to hear about how he has managed to control his behaviour. Good answers at question time”
“Good demonstration of finding the right approach for the right person”

   
 
Patrick Mills
“Very insightful, really moving”
“An interesting insight into how martial arts have helped Patrick”
“Fantastic channelling ones strength into fun”
“Clear journey through life, great to hear about personal management interventions”
“Good advice - physical direction - relevant to my own experience”
“The moral of your story was so powerful, well done”
“Very interested in the use of martial arts. Clear, engaging story. Excellent”
“Impressive that he’s been able to channel his aggression into something positive”
“Found the thought of introducing martial arts interesting - used this in my own job”
“Inspirational in understanding reasons for anger and learning control”
“Very much enjoyed the talk and how helpful martial arts are to him and his life”
“I was really interested to hear how Patrick dealt with his anger”
“Interesting explanation and approach to anger management”
“Really brave, good way of explaining with martial arts”
“So different, but got the subject across so well”
“Lovely end message, yet again - so positive – well done”
 
     

catherine green

What the audience said about Catherine:

“Catherine highlighted the importance of making the right information available to people with AS and their families”
“Fabulous presentation-can we get access to a copy of it?”
“Super, easy to listen, understand - surely more to come?!”
“Excellent-use of PowerPoint really good. Poem amazing!”
“Very moving poem”
“Inspirational”
“Excellent presentation, fantastic delivery, very informative”
“I enjoyed the PowerPoint presentation it was a good to follow what was being said”
“Excellent account of her life so far”

 
Catherine Green
“Very well thought out speech”
“Very self aware, would like to see more of her poetry”
“Inspiring and confident speaker”
“Excellent - very interesting to hear her story/journey. Clear/passionate delivery”
“Very articulate speaker”
“Wonderful insight and presentation”
“What a great example for all of us”
“Highlighted very well the inadequacies she experienced at school. I think all schools can learn something from her!”
“Excellent - what a positive message she gave!”
“Inspiring, very eloquent”
“Very interesting presentation. Lovely manner, would love to learn more”
“Excellent - a real insight”
 
     

james rawlings (compere)

What the audience said about James:

“Very funny, very quick-put the audience at ease”
“Lovely to hear Jay-so confident”
“Full of energy”
“Very clear, funny & informative”
“Very funny, good compere. Put himself across very clearly in question time”
“Entertaining and confident!”
“Very funny”
“Very entertaining and humorous”
“Very articulate, good relationship with audience”
“Very funny-gave real optimism”
“I loved the jokes, a great compere”
“Fantastic! Loved the jokes”
“Fun, clear, articulate, entertaining”
“Funny, confident speaker”
“A natural and enthusiastic compere with humorous nature”
“Good wit”
“Funny, warm, and encouraging”
“Very amusing!”
“Really engaged with audience, good sense of humour!”
“Jokes were good to help brighten the day”
“Should be on the comedy circuit!”
“Fantastic and witty compere”

 
 
     

matthew bratt

Matthew wanted to talk about his life with AS, but was not able to cope with being amongst so many people.  To enable his story to be told, we interviewed him at home and played the video to the audience.

What the audience said about Matthew:

“It is important to hear from those who do not have the confidence to appear in person”
“Very honest, very helpful”
“Demonstrated the real world of AS – living with it in a real situation eg lack of eye contact but totally aware of questions asked”
“Listening to Matthew talk about his computer was amazing – he’s so clever”
“Watching Matthew helped me to better understand traits in my son that I need to help him overcome”
“Good to know others fiddle with cloth, makes me feel better”

“Excellent – very helpful to hear Matthew’s thoughts on being with people”

Matthew Bratt
“A real insight - very moving”
“Matthew’s views on friends and cats fascinating”
“Very interesting”
“Thank you and well done”
“Video presentation excellent”
“Gave great insight into how people with AS are isolated and misunderstood”
“Really good, useful to hear Matthew’s thoughts”
“Realised we must listen to parents more when trying to work with young people with AS – they know their sons’ and daughters’ ways and understand their needs”
“Good to see Matthew enabled to take part in this event”
“Gave me greater understanding of the wants, needs & difficulties of people with AS”
“Fascinating video interview”
“Insightful”

General Comments

“Your sessions provide excellent training for our staff as they give real insights into coping with ASD related problems and act as a good starting point for discussion and reading”
Felicity Hopkins, ASD co-ordinator, Bartholomew School, Oxfordshire

 
Autism Oxford

“The question time was excellent!”
“Both Comperes should be on the Comedy Circuit!”
“Very interesting and thought provoking. Good Variety of speakers”
“Thank you - very useful and illuminating”
“Very impressed with the whole experience”
“An excellent afternoon, I learned a lot!”
“I can’t tell you how much I enjoyed this afternoon”
“Inspiring! Moving! Informative! AMAZING!”
“A really useful and inspiring afternoon - will take away some life changing stuff”
“Fascinating day - thank you - very enlightening”
“A very interesting, informative and positive experience”

“Thank you for a really inspirational seminar - such a pity my son couldn’t come”
“Thank you so much for all the speakers today - this has been really helpful”
“Very interesting and thought provoking. Good variety of speakers”
“Very impressed with the whole experience, would certainly come again”
“Outstanding, inspirational speakers”
“Affordable price - thank you! Excellent venue with parking. Excellent sound system”
“I can’t tell you how much I enjoyed this afternoon”
“What made this so powerful were the young people themselves”
“Very valuable to hear the personal experiences from those with AS”
“Fantastic opportunity to be a part of this day – society needs to change”
“Lots of different characteristics and experiences to consider .......”
 
 
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